Lin, your description of your husband's behavior at the Italian buffet made me laugh. Sometimes these child-men are funniest when they are not trying. Usually. I thought your reaction to this almost awkward situation was perfect. I do admire your perspective and patience.
I hope you have a lovely Easter. I hope your weather is divine as well. {In some far off galaxy, it must be balmy and spring-like. I will soon be gulping 'attitude improvers' if the bad weather HERE does not relent soon.}