CL, It sounds like you are doing the right thing. This DB is hard, but detaching seems to be working better for me now. I'll be honest with you since my H has moved out in Oct. it seemed like I would try my best to find petty reasons to call him. It's getting easier to detach from him. I think I may be finally getting it. I was going down a lot of cheeseless tunnels. I did have one slip up this week I invited him to eat with our 2 daughters and me if he didn't have any plans for Easter. He said okay, but I wish now I would have been stronger and not invited him. I think he needs to see what it is like without having me make sure he gets to spend time with the girls. I do not plan on calling him and reminding him. He will have to put out some effort. I have not heard from him since Thurs. My daughters and I will get up and go to Easter services and then come home and have a nice afternoon.
I hope you have a wonderful Easter!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
