Thank you Heywyre...wow, 4 years old? that would be rough. With my first son, it took 2 months, so this is driving me crazy. He's doing okay, even told me twice at Walmart he had to go and did. But then he'll go in his underwear just minutes after going on the potty. oh well, i just have to be patient.

Hey Nikki, thanks for the post. Hope your trip went awesome. We are actually going to plan a trip just the two of us for sometime this year, so I think that will help. Thank you for trying to figure out some GALing ideas. ones that don't really cost would be best! ;\)

I tried to do some relaxation today..my back was really hurting after a lot of walking with H at store yest and taking kids to easter egg hunt today. And it did help, luckily my s8 was gone and s2 was asleep by me, and H was cleaning the house. very nice.

Confident_Me, thanks for the post and for the prayers! I will take them anytime! Although I would really love a prayer for my H. I'm really really hoping he will come to Easter service with us. I'm not sure if I should ask or not. I'm afraid of the answer. Since the A, he hasn't gone once. He would actually go maybe once a year before that, like on a holiday. He even told me at a pre-marriage retreat that he would go sometimes, and also said a year ago when football season was over he would go sometime. I'm trying not to force him or even bring it up because I used to do that in the past and then be depressed when he wouldn't want to go. So now I don't really know what to do.

One thing comes to mind about the "Act As If". But I feel like I should just let him choose to go if he wants. He already knows we want him to go, but maybe I should just say. "We'd love for you to come with us if you want to" . I don't know.

Thanks everyone!


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."