Hang in there sweetheart. One thing that took me a long long time to realize was this. H wants you to get mad as hell at him. This then justifies his rotten behavior. I have been consistently sweet to my H for the last month. He keeps coming around the house more and has this WTF look on his face all the time now.
I can tell he is doing some serious thinking about the rotten choices he has made in his life. He is trying to find any thing bad on me that he can - he can't. I keep smiling and being sweet as can be. Don't get me wrong, it is hard. I will probably get an ulcer from this. I want to save my marriage. I want my children to have their father back.
Me: 45 H: 43 Married: 19 years Dated 05 years Bomb: 11/06 OW - "I love her, but still want you as my friend"
