HB,
Hang in there, My H walked out the door and has gone deeper and deeper into his MLC since he left...H has OW, lost 2 jobs, neglects the bills and talks to his kids once a week...We only seperated 4 months ago!!! Oh and he filed for divorce about 2 weeks ago.
Read my sitch...similar to yours...unfortunately the whole thing sucks....
Post here and we will help you through this...there are wonderful people here to help...count on us!