H, you really don't know what upset him, or why he felt the need to fly off when you got home, do you? Maybe he's just trying (as you are, remember?) to Take Things Slowly. I'm sorry you felt rejected and got weepy (It muset have been the night for weepiness, cuz I was right there w/you - albeit an ocean away!) Jump back on the AS-IF & Slowly-Baby-Steps train and keep on going.

Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.

Me: 45 - WAH: 36
S8; D6
M: 11 yrs 07/06
Initial Bomb 10/06; D Bomb 11/06 - DBing begun 1/5/07 - H moved out 03/16/07
To date: No papers filed; H not seen a L; trying to convince me to MUTUALLY file for D