My soon-to-be-ex called me the other day (again). This time, I wasn't excited to hear from him. He told me that he found a job and wanted to know if his steel-toe shoes were still in the closet. I said, "no." I didn't initiate any conversation. I just answered his questions. He got the hint, and we hung up.
Later, I was on the computer checking out a band's website. I noticed a link to this band's myspace.com blog. Of course, my curiosity got the best of me, so I performed a search to see if my H had a blog...yep, he does. He set it up 18 May 2006, about 2 weeks before we separated. He doesn't have anything on it except 2 members...his son and step-son. I also noticed that he updated his blog recently and said that he was 'single.' Well, he's obviously moved on. I mean, I have too, but I'm going about it differently than he is. I'm not setting up myspace blogs. Before I know it, he's picture will probably be on match.com. Gosh, is that what I have to look forward to...people telling me that they saw my H's pic on the internet?
Well, I hope things are going well for you. I'm still waiting for my divorce to become final.
Take care.
All my best, alamogirl
Me - 48 (at time of 1st bomb) H - 43 married - 16 Jul 94 no children 1st bomb - (said he was leaving) - 3 Jun 06 2nd bomb (said he was ready to file) - 10 Nov 06 H filed divorce - 17 Nov 06 Divorce finalized - 20 Jul 07
