Oh, my, that would set me off BIG TIME no matter the age of the kids.

Honestly, I have to admit that my H has never ever brought OW around and the kids have never met her and he has never expressed interest in having them meet her.

Odd, huh?

What you ask is too much for me, esp. from a moral perspective. It would be different if people are divorced but I have problems with that. If it was proposed to me I would say no way because the kids live with me.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19