You do make me laugh. You are probably right on the ..."Doo dee doo, oh yeah, gotta send out my new e-mail address to everyone in my address book". He'd have no clue that seeing that town name would bother me, or why, unless I pointed it out to him. And then, he'd think I was to sensitive.
I did see him this week, for him to give me our tax forms. He actually used the word 'we' for the first time in 4 yrs, in telling me that 'we' did well at putting money away this year(for retiement). It was so wierd... we are saving together, for what?.. our individual retirement lives, apart?
After that, as he was leaving, I reached up to turn his face to the side, because I was noticing how many wrinkles he had gotten. He flinched away. I think he thought I was going to kiss him. But since that wasn't where my brain was at that moment, I continued on with my train of thought, and said 'wow, you are getting wrinkles'. I think it caught him so off guard, he laughed, and walked away laughing. It felt so good to make him laugh.
I sent an IM later saying that wrinkles gave guy character... to which he responded, something to the effect that he would accept that he was a character. Before that msg made it from his computer to mine, I'd sent a little icon with three little animated smiley faces, holding up cards that said '10', wiggling their little legs under their chairs. I'd call that e-flirting!
Anyway, you were right, I was wrong. I did take my first class on the table saw and chop saw. wow, the power! it's cool!
