COG - I am not about to say "I am sorry for what is happening to you" because, quite frankly I think it is about time you exploded. And, perhaps this will be the turning point for you. Like you said, at least she has admitted it, it is out in the open now and perhaps that will be the first step for her and you to move forward

Take care - all the best to you both

p.s. trust me, I know what you are dealing with. My H would NEVER admit that HE was the one with the problem and you all know how many problems he really does have

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)