I saw H Thursday because I had a meeting to go to and my D had several things she needed to do also so I took her to H and asked him to help us out. She will be 16 next month so it won't be long that she can drive her own self around! While I was there I told him that I was cooking for Easter Sunday and he was welcome to join us if he didn't have any plans, but if he did that would be okay. He said okay. I have no expectations, I was just trying to be nice. If he comes it will be okay, if he doesn't I will enjoy my day with my girls. I have not talked to him since then. I do not plan on calling to remind him. When I told my oldest D (the one in college)that I had invited H for Easter, her reply was "Mom, why did you do that?" She loves him, but is so tired of his wishy-washy attitude.
Youngest D had high school dance team try-outs last night, and yes, she made it for the 2nd year in a row. What a relief! It felt so strange not being with H to share this with. My D and I went out with some other girls and their parents who made the team also,it was very nice. I've got some great friends.
I hope everyone has a very blessed Easter!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon