Well I have read some of the messages...and the one true thing I see is that there are so many people out there to talk too and write too during this gray area of marriage. I really hope that I can find some fulfillment here because at times I just feel like I am so lost and empty. I try to be such a good mom and throw all my emotion into my kids...but in the end I feel that emptiness and realize that the other aspects of my family still seem to creep in and create that empty and sad feeling. I often feel I am a fraud going around like this happy person...being cheerful to everyone. Anyway, I hope I can gain some happiness and insight posting on this site. I think I will try to buy another copy of the Divorce Remedy and read Ch 5. Finding your best friend again. Had the book once...but i think H tossed it.