I went to my usual Friday night dance venue. It used to be a respite from my W, but now she's been showing-up these past two weeks.
Do you have any idea why she comes now? Did you talk at all during the evening? Was she a GW afterwards?
Back when you separated --did you live separately? Did you discuss working on your marriage after the separation? Just trying to understand.
In my case H was open and honest. I knew exactly how he felt and where he was and who he was with. I wonder which is worse--knowing everything or knowing nothing????? We actually talked more during that time!