My H and I went through a similar stage - where the arguments we used to have would still resurface, but the way we dealt with them was MUCH better. One thing I said when we were going through this is "we're not trying to hurt each other". H agreed with that.
We took things slowly and now the arguments rarely come up. Why not? Cos I've learnt that sometimes I keep quiet, sometimes my timing is wrong so I wait, and I've learnt to communicate MUCH better as well.
In Bliss you are REALLY getting there. WELL DONE!!!!!
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.