Hi, COG.

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My current plan of attack is to do NOTHING.
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That plan is very likely to net you exactly what you invest in it - nothing.

If you are willing to push the envelope, I can help you with a plan. First, we will need to play "20 questions" so we can all get a picture of just where your relationship is.

If you don't want to push, then I doubt you are going to get very far. That is my honest opinion. I have read your posts.

Your call.

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... but when I allow her space, allow her to be who she is, accept her unconditionally, then she stays real soft...
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Of course she does. Nothing is being demanded of her. That's not the "soft" I am looking far. I am talking about what melts her heart toward you. What makes her receptive toward you?

All the best,
-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.