My current plan of attack is to do NOTHING. That's one thing I really have'nt tried for an extended period. I'm going to accept her, and my sitch just the way it is. I'm going to let go my selfishness, my neediness, my frustration, and find only the good in life. I'm not going to initiate or even mention anything sexual, but I will continue the friendly touching because she's OK with that. And in six months she'll be naked and begging me to have sex with her.
Either that or I might just grow big enough balls to say goodbye.
COG
If you can pull off that strategy for 6 months you will have the balls for anything. The ability to find the good in life and accept things as they are without getting resentful is a great strategy but it takes a LOT of strength and willpower to keep the positive outlook and to keep the resentment from creeping in. I know it is something that would help with me, but I cannot seem to pull it off for an extended period of time.
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.
