Furniture moving today---feeling strange

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SH, I understand what you mean about buying furniture.

As much as I'm trying to fight the sale of our house, I see it as a needed step to the recovery of my wife. I think she is going to need to find herself sitting in a hole of an appartment by herself to understand what she has lost. So, I see it as a step away to bring as step back. That doesn't mean that I am not fighting it as much as possible hoping that she sees the light before we sell the house.

Because we accept that we are most likely going to sell it, I have been out looking at condos. This is where I can appreciate what you are saying. I am finding myself getting a little excited about the prospect of living in a condo that is not more than 5 minutes from my office. However, I catch myself thinking this and than I get a knot in my gut thinking that I shouldn't be thinking this because I won't be there with my wife. And that is what is important.

I've decided that if I do end up getting a condo, I will make it very nice and therefore easy for her to come to and a place where she would want to live. I see this as part of making myself and my life as attractive as possible for her to return to.

Hang in there. We both know that this is the hardest, but most important thing we have ever done.