Thank you all sooo much for your advice. It really helps me see what I need to do during this difficult time. I told him yesterday to list the house and he said he was going to. We will see if that happens. I got argumentative and told him that I have made alot of changes to myself in the last month and he sees them but still says it cant be fixed, I said he doesnt know that and he said he does and I said no you dont and that is where we left it. I had to meet him today to get the kids and before I said hello or anything I said that I wanted to forget about yesterday and be friends. I hope that was the right thing to do. Im going to try with everything in me just to be his friend and not discuss anything about the realtionship for awhile. I am just going to back off and not pursue it and Im going to tell him that Im not yet ready to sell my house. I hope that is a good idea. Please let me know if its not. Thanks again for all your advice you really are a great bunch of people and I hope I get to know you all better during this extremely difficult time in my life. Heather
