Thanks 4. I'm doing pretty well actually. H was over yesterday picking up S3 and I think he was trying to hit on me....yeah, I'm pretty sure he would have had sex with me if I initiated it...Too bad he can't talk to me and tell me his feelings. It's a total turnoff now that I recognize it. I had to tell him to leave at one point. I truly don't feel that much towards him right now; just remorse.
He called me this morning and said he tried to get into his therapist's office but they ended up closed for the holiday. I told him to write down what he is feeling; that always helps with me.
He was pretty sullen on the phone. I know he wants to get together and talk one night next week. I'm not sure if it will help. We'll see. I think he needs to continue therapy for now and I will do the same and I'm just trying to reassure S3 that we both love him. He's been voicing his own opinions pretty frequently this week and its heartbreaking to both of us.
How are you 4?
Me 31 WAH 30 M 5 Together 14 years S 4 divorced 7/11/07