just a little update....

Still have not talked to STBXH in person. Everything has continued through tm and he has yet to come over and see the kids since Monday night.

I basically told him yesterday through tm that my conversations with him will be based on money for the kids from now on. He asked me why I was being nasty and I just said that I don't mean to be nasty but this is how it has to be from now on since he is choosing this life.

So really nothing new. No new sign of life from H...just same old selfish man.


"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."