Don't show your suspicions. In fact, do a 180!!! "Act as if" you've had the BEST night and say something like, "So glad that you're not taking time to enjoy yourself with your friends!" After you've done this a few times in response to his hanging out with his friends, he won't feel the urge to fight you so much to ask for time out and his need to spend time apart will diminish. TRUST ME! I've heard numerous women try this approach and it works.
It would work with me. For example, if I went out dancing with my gfs and my significant other got jealous, I might want to go out again and think he's not cool or confident. But if he said with a huge smile on his face, "Have fun darling!" And then told me that it was important for me to take time out, I would feel validated and like my needs were being met as they would be and the next time I went out, I'd probably miss him and think, "What a nice guy my bf or H is, he really wants me to be happy!"
So no guilt trip, no tears, no suspicion, no drama! Got it???
You CAN DO IT!
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