Hi,

I'm new and read a few posts...i don't know what all the abbrev mean...but I am here because I am curious. I have spent three yrs unhappy. Three kids..young...and counseling helped for basic communication...still areas need work. Right now, it is basically two people raising the kids in the ame house. Friends under the same roof. But the physical relationship mostly on my part...is gone. I wish it weren't...but I really don't know how to get it back. And it is getting worse. Every time I am asked to...I either give in or stand my ground. And both are torture. I don't want anything to ruin my children's lives..so I sit in my own misery and sometimes sink into depression. I workout 7 days a week and I truly the obsession is to feel good about myself....but the workouts are almost too much on my body.