ERC, Have you read "Love Must Be Tough" by Dobson. It talks about letting a small group of Christians confront the betrayer and make them accountable. There is more to his book, but this is in it . It talks about setting them free and let them know that you will not be a doormat, not something I'm comfortable with though. It just it might give you a different point of view. I know it goes against DB, but maybe you can take a little of DB and a little of Dobson. I wish we had all of the answers, then we wouldn't be going through this, would we?
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
