Hi Here is the beginning of my story. (click above link)
I am wondering if my H is having an MLC. He has moved out and wants to sell the house. He says he wants his own place. He doesnt want to work things out, he says I drove him away. We have been together 15 years and for most of that very happy. We have 2 children that are 6 and 4. He says he doesnt want to ne married anymore. Hes not spending money because there is none to spend but he seems to be drinking more often. He says he wants the kids half the time, but right now hes only taking them about once a week. I have made changes to myself for myself that he sees but says this cant be fixed.Some of the stories I hav read here sound just like H. There isnt another woman as far as I know. What happens if we do sell the house? Can I still try Db'ing? Is there any point after that? Im in such pain right now because he doesnt even want to try. I dont know what to do I am looking for answers but everytime I seem to find one it goes out the window. I told him to list the house but he said whats the hurry. Then he wanted to spend Easter together with the kids. Very confusing. We talked tonight and I asked him if he expected mne to wait for him to make up mind, he got upset and told me to go ahead and find someone else and to finish what I started with the lawyer. I had and appt and cancelled because we were going to have a talk the day before i had the appt. HE was angry when he said this adn I said dont get mad at me because I am trying to give him what he wants. He says he doesnt know what he wants but that he wants his own place and he doesnt want to be married anymore. Should I just give up and move on? Is it worth it? PLease help. Heather
