You are right. I just posted on 2940 about assuming what they are doing. I have to realize what they are doing or thinking is something I can;t control. I am having a hard enough time trying to control me....

I need some HELP on EASTER. My boys will both be gone. I haven't mentioned anything to H. His b and W are having a big dinner and we always go to his family they are a big family and do a lot together. They have invited me to go with or without him. I am really close to his family. Of course I have beenhere 27 years. This is really hard at times because I have 8 SIL and all of us are pretty close. I am an only child so it is real hard. I guess I will just wing it. If he wants to go to dinner, church, movie or a drive I'll go or just go do my own thing. See I think I'm gettingbetter. before I would be freaking out and worrying.

Tonite I have a feeling after posting on 2940 that I also CAN MAKE IT. with or without. I am gaining confidence thanks to everyone. I am still open for advice.