That's the whole blood is thicker than water thing. I wouldn't say anything to MIL. She probably just doesn't want him "mad" at her. Besides if you have a kid that does this kind of thing it's gotta hurt (unless your slime). Personally, I'd risk my kid being mad at me, but then I've never quite been the norm.
Nope, he doesn't want to "work" at anything right now. So, just smile and know that his selfish little a$$ is missing out on the really important stuff.