I don't really know how to tell the "story"...H basically was raised by an abusive incestrious pedophile of a father and other male relatives...
At the point his mother tried to flee with her 3 children she left them with the only relatives she had...not knowing the hell she was leaving her children in...when she returned they would not allow her to have her children back...at this point there had been numerous acts of sadicious child abuse and mental torment...
Then father shows up with "new" wife...the kids think they are being saved...only one sibling is not his and must stay behind...they all remember this trauma to this day...well the rescue turned out not to be...father sexually abused step-daughters and basically had to flee the state when the new wife found out what he was doing...all along he had been physically abusive to her as well which was the main reason the mother had fled from him with her children...
Life goes on like this with father raping his daughter along with other male family members until daughter reaches in to her teen years...she later became addicted to drugs (duh!), spent time in jail, and is now recovered and doing well...
Sibling left behind endured all sorts of sadistic abuse and turned to both drugs and alcohol to soothe his pain...to this day he is still in bad shape emotionally...reunited with his mother about 13 years ago, he now lives with her
My H seemed to be the only one not effected by all of this...he talked of it minimally during our life together...then when it all came tumbling down with his MLC he totally fell apart...started having flash backs...felt suicidal at times...and basically made a major mess of his life in a very short period of time...he was diagnosed with PTSD from the child abuse that was suppressed for years...he also is a recovering alcoholic as of this year...as I said, when this came out he totally fell apart...
I found their sibling that they were seperated from about 23 years ago...it wasn't till 13 years ago that I found their mother...the whole unit has been reunited...thankfully their father is dead along with most of the other abusers...the ones that their other sibling grew up with are probably continueing the abuse with their own children/grandchildren now...who knows...it is just so sick
