OH wow!! Ok, I knew about the mood changes...really...but damn!
So, Fri she gets her hair done to go out on the town. I say nice things, how pretty she looks, etc. She wasn't going with OM so I was supportive and told her have a great time. She comes home and the car has problems..running rough....that means we can't take D to college tour. She gets car fixed...simple spark plug problem...but now has no plans and its just us in the house....but we were getting along really well. Until...
She said...so did I look good last night...I said she did indeed...through in some well meant compliments...then I said it...As the words came out I knew it would be bad....couldn't bring em back....I said she looked really good...the only thing that would have made her look better was her ring...owww...
She said now you're starting to bug me...I
YOU are bugging HER because you asked your WIFE to wear her wedding rings?? Of course, you're bugging her, because you are showing how DESPERATELY you need HER. You DO NOT. Are you married or not?? If so, rings on.....if not, her ass out the door.
[/quote]So yeah, the naked stuff and the massages...I've been letting them give me hope.[/quote]
Why are you still massaging HER. Is she returning the favour??
[/quote]It's like the closer we get the farther she runs the next day[/quote] Exactly. And the MORE you distance yourself, the closer she will (may) run!
[/quote]It's like I saw her for the stranger she is for the first time....anything I'm clinging to is just a memory....nothing more...[/quote]
Then it's time for you to make her sh8t or get off the pot.........you ARE my wife, or you are NOT.
[/quote]Still massaged her last night...she couldn't sleep [/quote]
MAN, she's got it good!! Ignore you all day, then have you kiss her ass to rub her back at night!! No wonder she hasn't left........yet.
[/quote]Enough philisophical rambling from me..[/quote]
I agree. Time to look at this for what it IS and make a decision.
