Hey Nicola ~ You do still have your sense of humor so that is a plus ;-) I feel like you do in so many ways. I think I am in the exact same spot as you except that my h has lived with his ow for a year now. Having the kids around her is so tough and it is hard for me not to ask if she was there or what they did.
And I was just thinking today that maybe my h is happy. Who am I to get in the way of his happiness. We just never know.
Lots of love Christy
Christy M: 31 H: 33 Married ~ 13 years S12 S8 Bomb 10/05 supposedly ended A 2nd bomb 12/30/05 Separated 01/06 I filed 6/12/07 ~ new ow 3wks after moving out http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1094955&page=0#Post1094955
