Just read, somewhere, that the death of a father impacts men more than any other event (outside of spouse/kid death) and can be a "trigger" for major life changes. H's bf had a dad who took his own life. BF became, I swear, an even better dad/husband than he was before. BF was/is a Great model as a father and husband even though he had NO model. Cycles can be broken. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016