Holly,

Just read, somewhere, that the death of a father impacts men more than any other event (outside of spouse/kid death) and can be a "trigger" for major life changes. H's bf had a dad who took his own life. BF became, I swear, an even better dad/husband than he was before. BF was/is a Great model as a father and husband even though he had NO model. Cycles can be broken.
j-


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change