Olive, it seems like your h is on his way back. This is great. Just a word of caution about 2 steps forward, one step back. He will have a difficult time letting go. I completely agree with "kill us for months but don't want to devastate OW". I hate to think that H is still putting OW's welfare/feelings above mine. There's a song "Trust me .. It's Love". I like the lyrics. Hang in there. I made the mistake of getting my hopes too high, I think. Just hang in there. HUGS.
M 38, H 38, two sons Met 20 years ago Married 13 years Bomb: Oct, 2006 DB: Started in Dec, 2006 H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007 H back home and piecing?