Chicki, you really have to have no expectations of him...you must begin to do things on your own. I can't remember your sitch but does he control the money? Do you have someone who regularly services the AC?

Make an appointment and tell him that someone is coming over to fix it.

This goes for everything else too. You can't be clingy. That will drive him further away.

Danu is right, don't expect any pats on the back for all the things you do. This is your time to grow strong. Just let him go, let him fly in the wind...you just hang out on the curb with us and watch the show.

Hugs,
Vali

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller