It's got to be very painful to listen to your kids bonding with OW. I can feel your pain. You'd just like to bust her head. But I guess if you try to look real hard there is a positive, for the kid's anyway. And what's good for them should be good for you gals. Anyway, the worse sitch would be if the OW detested your kid's, because then she would'nt want your H's to be with them. Then they'd loose their dad's and that's never good for them. So I know how hard it might be to swallow this, but it's actually, probably better this way. Acceptance of that fact might help you move on from it.

The kids still know who their momma is. The OW is just a baby sitter and will never be anything more.

Love Ya,

COG


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