I hate to sound pesimistic but sometimes (no, I stand corrected - all the time) piecing is harder that most think it to be. When the WAS comes back, its like a honeymoon all over again but that soons fades just like it did the first time around, only faster
Reality is, you both have to get back to your lives. But, in your case, if W is wanting to keep everything separate this kind of indicates to me that she is withdrawing from you "just in case" - I don't know but that's just my take on it
I totally understand the "no physical affection" part - its been like that for some time - post A - in our house
I am hoping to change that one day, still working on it
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
