You got a nice positive in her saying is was a great night. So, you must have made some good noises.
Don't listen to her nonsence about what is or is not going to happen with regards to the trip. She's breathing (hence could be lying). Until something happens there's no point in putting any energy into it.
I'm curious what she meant about her having all the hard work? She's right about NO ONE being able to replace you. Even though she hummed and hawed about the bed she got that you should be there. I hope you said "thank you". We need to acknowledge the good/nice stuff they do. Even though it makes me want to gag to do it sometimes .
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