Turn it off? Not entirely but we can do other things, like you said, to get our minds off of it, if only for a while.
I think I have come to the fork in the road, something like COG, where I have looked at all the other options and, quite frankly, I would prefer to stay in a sexless R with someone I consider my best friend than to go off to find the great sex only to have a lousy mate in all other aspects of life.
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)