Heywyre. It is the old problem the SO can't or doesn't know how to turn on their SD and the poster here like Cemar and others (me included) don't have the ability to turn off the sex drive we have. Maybe you can.
I know I avoid many situations where I know I will want to be more sexual than my W is willing to be. I laid in bed many nights wanting to make out, have sex but she wasn't willing so I got up and stayed up till 3AM doing something else less satisfying.
So who's comfort level was disrupter the most? Mine or my W's?
