Well maybe if he wants her to lust etc etc he should put himself in her shoes and see why it is that she doesn't
Maybe, like my H and COG's W and so many others on here, they just don't want it, plain and simple.
And personally, I don't care how much I loved my H, there are some things I just wouldn't do. It's a personal choice and I don't think Cemar or anyone else should force someone to do something they are not comfortable with
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)