I don't stay up until 1 a.m., but I know exactly what you mean about the laundry, dishes, making dinner every night, etc., etc.!!!! Oh and don't forget not going to be bed early even if I'm tired b/c I want to spend time w/ H after the boys go to bed. Not complaining necessarily, but . . . . My H actually was doing a lot of the laundry & other things around the house and I was taking care of the boys (they are all still young and the baby still needs constant watch or has to be in his play pen), but that was his way of "making everything ok for me" and I think was the straw that broke the camel's back so to say. Anyway, he's not doing much of anything lately so I make sure it's all done and always done!! But the way I'm justifying it is, once he leaves for the year, I'll have to do it all anyway, so I've just had 3 mnths of practice now \:\)

I've noticed that, when things aren't going well w/ H and M/R, I don't have as much patience w/ the boys either. I've felt like telling him that, but obviously haven't.

Don't read the dream books!!!! It just gives you more to stress about and/or think/dwell on. Anyway, I suppose if you at least killed one of the mice while stepping over them, maybe you killed the OW, right? \:\)

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10