Sure wish someone had told me those things 6+ years ago and maybe I wouldn't have ended up at the place my M was!!!!! Listen, listen, listen. M has to come first, or a lot of attention at least has to still be given to H as a man, as hard as that seems to be. My H had his first 2 A's before our first even turned 2 because he felt so "neglected."
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
