Can someone tell me why should I put up with this abuse any longer? I am just plain tired of it all..........

Our A/C was not working last nite when H came home from work I could tell he was in a very bad mood,but I still had to tell him about me finding the A/C tubes covered in ice and that now it was not working... H- " oh no first my phone does not work and now this! I am not buying a new one,if it takes for me to move out(note the me part selfishness- uh, what about his three girls and me?).

The house was like a sauna and even though our bedroom does not have a ceiling fan, I was not feeling well(sinus infection) and fell asleep before H. I just knew that H would come over and take his pillows and go to sleep in the (his)extra room which has a ceiling fan..Yupe, H did just that,so I awoke (in sweat mind you) and went to where he was sleeping and kindly asked if he could reach the fan in the garage for me- "no b/c i would have to move the motorcycle" and then went back to sleep!! I don't know why I expected anything less? H has always been selfish, but this one has taken the cake!

Ya know what I did? I took my work clothes and stuff and left to sleep at my mom's:)

My mom has always given the advice to stick it out and wait on the Lord, but how much abuse can I take? It seems to only get worse! Opinions?