I've definitely gotten to the "O" almost every time we've had sex since the bomb. I lost a lot of weight & finally decided to allow myself to enjoy & come out of the "box" a little bit as far as our sex life goes and I think that's made a huge difference!! I'm sure he likes the oral bit, and I never really did it before, so I think he's enjoying the new things we are doing also. And, yes, he is the type that wants/likes for me to be enjoying it too.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10