I've definitely gotten to the "O" almost every time we've had sex since the bomb. I lost a lot of weight & finally decided to allow myself to enjoy & come out of the "box" a little bit as far as our sex life goes and I think that's made a huge difference!! I'm sure he likes the oral bit, and I never really did it before, so I think he's enjoying the new things we are doing also. And, yes, he is the type that wants/likes for me to be enjoying it too.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10