Wow, what a selfish jerk. My advice start the LRT and go dark. Do not ask him for anything. Even something as simple as getting a fan or sharing his room with him. He is not worth you getting all upset over. He does not seem to be in a very good place right now.
Sorry I do not have anymore advice other than to go dark and do that for you own good. As far as how long you stand and put up with it is completely up to you. If you ask me you stand as long as you can so that you do not regret any desc. that you make.
Later, Ben
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."