That is not just true with WAS's it is true with the Human race in general. There are not very many people that are willing to stand up and fight for what they believe in. Those people are truely hard to come by anymore.
It is just a lot easier for people to walk away from their problems thinking that they can just forget about them but they still have to wake up the next morning and face them again...
I am a recovering Alcoholic. When I started all of this I turned to the booze to get me through the night just so that I could go to sleep and forget about my horrible day. However, I would then wake up with a hang over and have to face the same problem the next day. Once we realize that it is not the end of the world and can take control of our own lives you finally realize how precious the time we have on this earth is.
So that is when we make a choice to stand and face our demons. we all have them.
Just my opinion though...
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
M: 33 MLC/WAH: 33 M 6 yrs, together 12 2 kids: 5,2 Bomb #1: 4/06 - "I don't love you anymore", almost S Bomb #2: 7/06 - EA/PA since late 05, kicked H out/S Bomb #3: 1/07 - "No longer have any feelings for you. It's over.", living w/OW, no talk of D
