I agree with YoYo. The percentages have to be really high for the A aspect of it. Might not be a PA but an EA can be equally if not more devistating than a PA.

The thing to remember here is that it really is not about the A. It is about you and bettering yourself. Finding out what was missing that had them walk away in the first place. You can only fix yourself and no matter what the outcome of the M is YOU will end up better and stronger in the end. That is as long as you focus on improving your life....

Hope that answers your question....

Ben

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