The question is how badly do they want to fix themselves.
I totally agree Grace...I also worry that even if my H were to come back and say he wants to work on M...I will have major trust issues knowing that his problem goes way deeper than MLC or OW...every time he gets stressed or depressed, he's gone...to me, this is more like a pattern than MLC and I don't know if this is a pattern I want to live with. Don't get me wrong, I am here because I have seen behaviors from him that are different from the past and definite clues he is going through a crisis, but what will our future hold if he can't resolve his childhood issues?
