Ok...shaking you gently but firmly and hollaring "You can't CONTROL any of this girl...get a grip!!!".
Yea, easier said than done, huh? I know.
First on the dream - all I would say to him is "You're right...there are bunches of guys out there that could be for me - BUT there's ONLY ONE I want......!!!!" Kiss him, smile and walk away.
Girl, my hubs travels WEEKLY to the town where the A took place. Stays in the SAME hotel where she once was with him...but you know what?? I have NO CONTROL over that. NONE.
I made a point the other day at MC - I've come to the place that anything that he might have going on (he swears there's nothing) is HIS problem and issue - NOT mine. Just like a bill that's due - HE is the one that has to pay it - NOT ME. When you get to that place, you're not totally worry free - I'd be lying to say that - but honestly, it becomes fleeting and not a dwelling spot. I promise!
I know this is hard, lordy lordy, do I know - but you are BETTER than this... The more of an issue you make OW the more you're keeping it alive. By not bringing it up, you're not saying it's ok, you're saying I'm not giving the floozy anymore of MY/OUR precious time!!!!!!!!!
