I've read/heard a lot around here that the A and OW is like a drug to them and they're addicted. It takes time to "get off of it." They are feeling that wonderful spark of "newness" that we W's just don't bring out in them anymore. That's why we have to try to put that spark back in our M -- no it might not last, but they realize what they have is the best and LONG TERM. Love is a choice after awhile, it's not always going to be the fireworks like it is at first. I've read the fireworks love lasts about 2 yrs, then you have to work on making the other still feel loved, needed, etc. Use their LL.
I would think that either she is going to get frustrated & start pushing him, therefore pushing him away or he's going to grow bored of it.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
