The drama with his Dad continues. We took a family trip for the weekend, he had a nice time, but I could tell he was distracted with stuff about his Dad, he even said as much. He came home earlier than me and the kids (this was planned) and when he got home all kinds of stuff was going on, the dog was a mess, and then his Dad fell and ended up being admitted to the hospital, so more crisis. He has been a bit quieter and less interested in working on house stuff, I suspect that this stuff is in the back of his mind all the time. I have just been leaving him alone to deal with it. Is that the right thing to do? I figure he will talk about it when he wants to or needs to.
Trying to get into the routine of taking care of myself better, feel like I am very very very slowly making some headway.
I wish there was more intimacy between us, how about any intimacy, I get occasional hugs and that is all. Wish for more, am very frustrated on some levels about this, but feel like not pushing is the right thing to do.
any advice?
Me 41 H 42 DD 11 DS 8 M 18 bomb 8/3/06 separating 9/18/08
