Your screen name indicates the kids have a bit too high position in your M. Am I right or wrong?
Cadesmom34 The birth of children puts a lot of stress on a M. It sure did in mine. But Lou is correct that very often the couple should put themselves before the children. It is in the children's best interest afterall - a happy family. But all too often, couples drift apart during this time. Good for you for reconnecting with your H. Sorry he is not always willing to open himself up to you but he is probably dealing with lots of resentment. It's a slow process. Try not to get discouraged.
